His Cell Phone

by Mimi
(Chicago, IL)

I have been cheated on and found out by his cell phone. He was taking pictures of him self naked and sending them to his ex- girlfriend. I also notice he would be looking at texts a lot. Those texts were pictures of other girls. He then started texting them about hooking up and where to meet, or talking about the eventful night they just had.

I would wait until he was asleep and sneak his cell phone out of the room to read it. I waited until he wanted something from me and I threw it in his face. If your significant other is doing that to you you will get a feeling at first. Do not be afraid to investigate. I think you will find that your instincts may be right.

If they are truly not doing anything wrong they should be able to hand you their mobile phone at random and not be afraid to let you see it. When I found out my boyfriend was cheating he refused to admit it, even though I already knew. I would make him put his cell phone on speaker when he answered or let me answer it. If he would deny me access I would start accusing immediately.

Usually if you accuse them they start acting guilty if they truly are. Just be careful. In some cases they can try to turn it around on you and use the whole "you do not trust me" line. Gather your proof. I did this with my situation, so that there was no way he could deny or worm his way out of it. At the time I was pregnant. Safe to say we refer him to as the "dead beat" he is. I also ruined his reputation. To this day he has a hard time finding a girlfriend and I only ring his cell phone regarding our daughter.