Cell Phone Bill Lookup

by Eyes Now Open
(Pennsylvania)

How My Cell Phone Bill Lookup Helped Catch a Cheater.

My husband was caught cheating on me when he left town for extended work training and I received the mobile bill. The call details contained unfamiliar phone numbers and the times of the calls that were incoming and outgoing were more than suspicious: Many of them were placed/received the day of our wedding. We had been living together for 5 years and had 2 children during those years. It never occurred to me to question any of his calls in the past or his demeanor.

My husband always left the room when taking phone calls so that in itself meant nothing. I was devastated when I found out. He had gone out of state the day after our wedding and I was left a week later with this information, like a slap on the face. There was one particular number that repeated itself during my cell phone bill lookup.

I immediately called the number. A woman answered and asked who I was. I told her in a very angry and defiant tone that I was this mans wife. She responded by laughing and introducing herself as his girlfriend. This woman detailed for me the depth and breadth of their relationship. I was horrified, shocked, embarrassed and angry all at the same time.

To this day my husband denies an affair or cheating of any kind. He only admits to talking to his "good friend" at inappropriate times. He has never offered an apology or shown remorse of any type. Yes, we are still married. We have children together and have spent a lot of time building our family. I am not the kind of person who would rip their family apart based on a cell phone bill lookup and the shock-value of what that woman had to say.

Today, I keep better track of the cellular bills. It's difficult sometimes to forget what happened and to let it go. He is my husband not my child and I hate feeling as though I have to monitor him. But I can't allow myself to be blindsided like that again.